Thank you all for the support. So far so good. It's a little awkward....more on his side it seems than mine. GOOD! It should be strange for him. He's back in a situation he "escaped" from. Of course, without benefit of my 'wifely' duties.
So far, I have done well not telling him what I'm doing, where I'm going, etc.. He knows that there is a family wedding this weekend. Saw me wrapping the present and asked where the wedding was so I answered that. Marc is going with me (unfortunately couldn't seem to find a date willing to go...bummer! Would have loved a dance partner) so I figured he could know where his son would be.
I have several plans over the next month which he will not have any part in, no advance notice of, and will not hear a thing about.
I haven't sat him down yet to tell him the rules and boundaries yet. That is going to have to come tomorrow since I have plans tonight.
Yesterday I had made a pot roast in the crock pot for dinner. I told him he was of course welcome to some as there was plenty. I know he HATES pot roast.....too bad. It is there to eat and if he doesn't like it he can go hungry. He 'didn't feel like eating'. Still hasn't eaten and I made eggs and sausage for breakfast (again....he HATES sausage). Do you see a pattern here? All the things I know he hates happen to be the things I have made. Pretty amusing.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!