I have decided as a goal (and part of GAL) to be more active socially and to make it happen, rather than waiting for invitations. It sounds so simple but since I've not been doing that for years I need practice. I thought I had already been doing this but looking back I've been very limiting in who I ask and what I do. I'm going to 'branch out' all I can do is ask and if they say no thanks, no big deal, I can still feel good for making the effort.
That doesn't sound silly at all! I love your attitude about reaching out to others even when it can seem a bit awkward. Why is it kids have no trouble running up to a new kid at the park and asking if they want to be friends, and as adults we let our insecurities get the best of us?!
Good for you for challenging yourself in that way. I will try that myself. Also, accepting the invitations when they come along even though it might be something unusual opens you up to new experiences (a "Yes Man" attitude).
