Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

Another night on the WAW roller coaster. W came home, little late, said she had a meeting run late. Seemed in a bad mood, but I didn't engage or initiate. After a while, she said something about hating coming home so late and seemed to settle down.

After putting S to bed, she went to watch TV and I stayed upstairs reading and went to bed. Low and behold, she came to bed again. This is day 3 or 4 now, after a month not sharing a bed. She also said before she didn't want to sleep in the same bed because I would use it against her in separation proceedings (can't be separated and sleep in same bed).

Still not sure what to think, but not really trying. Haven't said a word to her about her sleeping choice these past days and don't plan to. Funny too... she has been having trouble sleeping most nights the past few months (me too) but the past few nights have been solid full nights of sleep. Wonder what that means?

Anyway, I am just keeping a little space and a little aloofness. Hope I can keep it real all long weekend.