Couldn't agree with Kalni more. He is buying time and I bet (based on my own H) that he will not make the effort needed to talk to your Pastor in the next three days. That is all the time I would give him AND I would not ask him about it. Not once. If he had not come to me and told me by Sunday evening that he talked to Pastor and THIS is what is going to change on his part to repair the damage done... then Monday morning I would file. and for heavens sake I would not tell him about my plans. He hs been told... if any of this is important to him he will make sure it happens.
disclaimer: this is not advice. This is what I would do.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
