I hope you take Sandi's advice. She's really helped me through my sitch and was the one who told me to go "dim" with my W when we were separated. She's definitely a gem on these boards.
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M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.