Sandi's Place

[MrBond]

Hi Sandi,

I'm not sure if you had a chance to go over to my new post, but if not,here's the latest:

This past Saturday we went out to see a movie without the kids for the first time in over a year and while she had a look like she would run away at any time, we had a decent time together. But still a little awkward.

During the lunch, I gave her a belated Mother's Day gift of Mamma Mia tickets for this weekend. I'm planning to take her out to a really nice dinner and the show after. I told her I'm going into the evening with no expectations and that we should just have fun. And she just said okay. So we'll see how that goes.

So I'm planning to take her to a nice dinner, then the show and maybe dessert after. Then home where I am definitely not going to push anything intimate.

After this I'm not going to push anything anymore and just let her be the one to initiate.

I did have a question though. While you were in your WAW mode and not liking your H, did you often mood swing from happy to depressed?

Especially in the past 2 weeks, I've noticed my W going back into her depressed mode and even not wanting to do things with our Ds. I keep thinking that maybe she's thinking of OM and feeling trapped.