Well...I agree about the actions. And I know that he must have some complaints or he wouldn't have left me...right? I appreciate your point that I don't need to make any rash decisions. I love the area that I live not necessarily the house...and the lease is up July 1st. I got a text from him tonight that said: "I wish you were willing to stay...very sad you have made up your mind about leaving. I feel so helpless. Please don't take my girls away. I'm very sad."
I didn't respond...I feel like saying back well a-hole...YOU made the decision to leave them...and I am sure they feel even more helpless and sad. YOU don't want to keep your family together...and YOU have to f-ing DEAL with it. But I won't. At least until I make my final decision...I can't even believe it. For a secong I thought that he was thinking about me (the date question) and now I feel it is all about the kids. DANG! I wonder if he thought about how helpless we feel looking around the house now that he has taken all his [censored] to his new place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow...never stopping to think about anyone but himself. Anyway...just venting. I agree that the analysis is exhausting. It is nearly impossible to do. I wish you luck!!!
