He has been in 10 yrs. We have been married 8...and yes he intends to stay in for 20. I know rights to retirement change at 10 yrs of marriage...but what about med coverage???
Oh, and FYI I was ecstatic about the outcome of American Idol!! I jumped up and down screaming "Woooo Hoooo"...and practically waking my kiddos! It was literally the first REAL happy moment I have had since this whole tailspin of a life started about 2 months ago! I have been in a good (positive) mood ever since! OK...so maybe I DO need to GAL! LOL!
Actually I DID GAL tonight. H picked up the girls from school. He texted me to ask me if D6 was mad at him saying she wouldn't talk to him and wanted only me. I texted him back that I didn't know and that D6 only covers her ears when we talk about him saying "no no no no no". ANd I told him to just tell her he loves her and wait for her to warm up. I told him he could bring them home when I called him since I was going to be out for the night. I went to meet a girlfriend for a drink...and some other friends showed up. It was fun. I ignored 2 texts from him asking me where I was. I just got home awhile ago...the girls were still up and he had been here awhile. He asked me where I was and I told him "out". Then I asked the girls about their day...very happy (and genuinely so. Could have been the sangria but who knows!!!). He asked again who I was out with and I said just Jenna and some other friends and left it at that. He asked if he could take some hangers and a cookie sheet and I said yes. He didn't hang out for long. The girls then told me about their day with him at his new place. They said it was SO small...D8 cried about it and said she didn't want him to make it his home. They said it is SO small with a little kitchen and a little room and he has a mattress on the floor. NICE. Really, this is what he wants??? Unbelieveable. When he has a home and a family...it truly boggles my mind. Has put a damper on my positive attitude...but has made me more and more sure that moving up to my hometown is the right choice.
