Thanks pollyanna.

Tonight was supposed to be my weekly phone call with my WAW. I decided to not call. I've been calling weekly without fail for the past 7 months of our 11 months separation. I thought I should do a 180 by not calling tonight to see what would happen.

Is this a good 180 move? Is this a way to be unpredictable? I've been calling weekly because my WAW asked me to do so after she left. I kept it up to show how consistent I am, trying to rebuild trust in her mind. But then, after 7 months of doing the same weekly calls, I thought maybe I was just doing the same thing repeatedly and became very predictable. So tonight, I decided to NOT call and wait and see...

Good move or bad? Thanks for any input...

JR09

Last edited by jr09; 05/22/09 04:37 AM.

Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11