Thanks Marvelous Lady! Many prayers were said by me tonight, trust me...
Nutshell version--Ol' Mikey wins the door prize.
"If I was sure I was making the right decision I would have already filed and moved on and been done with it..."
The final comment on his part was, that he asked me not to file until he talked to our Pastor. Not to talk to the kids about the situation until he talked to our Pastor. He said he couldn't promise anything but wanted to talk to him before anything else happened...