You know Wii.. There is nothing wrong with that.. it is a natural process thingy , I think ?

However, when we get things from others and not from ourselves.. or things from others that make ourselves.. then well.. it screwes up the entire healing process.

There becomes a dependency issue on what others think of us.. or we go to a place like this website to make us feel ok about who we are as a person. This should not be.

And we .. WE know better about that. Why ? Because it is about us.. OURSELVES and who we are.

We need nothing but ourselves .. and in a healthy way.. someone else.. but not really needing them.. Just someone else we enjoy being with and caring about. Mutually, eh ?

Tom