Hi Stuck,

Since we have been posting for a while and you kind of know how I am..... ,I hope you won't mind if I make a suggestion.

I understand fully what you are saying in the goals that you stated, however, if you look at them again, you will notice they are about "her" and what "she" will do or not do. Can you make them about "you" and what you will or won't do in order to arrive at those results that you are seeking? It goes back to not being able to control her......only yourself. See what I mean? It will have to be up to you to do the necessary work to arrive at those result.

I knew what you were saying......I just put it in a little different light.

Come visit me on my thead. I finally started a new one.

Take care,
Samdi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!