Kittyfish - I'm starting to think about exposing the affair. Were you exposed? How was that done - was it effective? Was any part of the exposure ineffective? W comes from a large catholic family with 11 siblings, some very devout. Even the whiff of an affair would be devatating not only to W, but also to some of the siblings - could have long term impacts. Part of me says so what - W made this decision and has to live with it, but...
It will be a couple of weeks before I am ready for the exposure, but I'm starting to work on how to do it, what to say, etc.
