I have had this convo with D9's counselor and she told me the same. It is up to H to take full ownership of the choices he is making. The kids KNOW I do not want daddy to be gone from the house, that we want him to come home. He needs to own his decision to walk out and not look back if we ever get to the point of having to tell the kids he wants a divorce.
Prayers for you and the kids!
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7