Trying to detach from the madness!

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No your H hasn't changed and neither has mine. I get anxious when I have to challenge exh on anything. His anger and the what is he going to do now that he is mad scares me to death. I guess we just have to find that manageable place with them.

Good for you Kass on the refi. When I bought my home after my first D I felt so independent. Thankfully I never put exh on title. Man, that would have been a disaster.

He sent some texts a few minutes ago asking how baby was and what I have been up to. I was short and to the point with the responses. He asked if I wasn't talkative or was it him? Oh, how I would have love to say it was him, but I said I was right in the middle of something and would talk to him later. I know that fries his cookies to be ignored.

Figures some friends from high school are getting together this weekend and my kids are out of town. So is my sister and my mom is too old and baby would run her ragged. Those are the only people I would feel comfortable watching her. Oh well. I have lots of yard work to do. May hit Costco. Baby loves the pool so maybe we will spend some time in there.