Right now I have resolved to dropping the final strand of "the rope" -not that I hold anything at all really...
My W is now holidaying with OM while I am looking forward to a fun packed week with my S7 - nothing bad about that...
But - she has made her way into this new life seemingly without a bye or leave - she loves our S7 desperately and so do I - and now my love for him seems to facilitate her...
This is a hard place to be....I don't want to upset the equilibrium - cos our son is in the middle of it - and its his happiness and equilibrium I'm looking out for....
Arrrghhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Right at the moment H is fine....seems fine...it seems that he can deal with the idea of a mummy and a daddy living in different places....(H is a very smart boy!) and W and I are making that work- but largely because of her and me not wanting to hurt H...
