How do I not let this control my every thought?

[Travis]

kat,
yes, I have an attorney. Actually, i signed papers this morning for a temporary custody hearing, papers for my answers to the divorce seeking custody of the kids, and replies to their motions. My attorney still says it's less than 50 pct that I'll get custody, but he says it's something we have to do right now. She's had my kids sleeping at his house on the couch two weeks after moving out while "Mommy sleeps in her really good friend's bed." She had the nerve to allow him to pick my youngest up at daycare!
People wonder why there's so much divorce in the world. Well, when the system let's the women (sorry to all "good" women reading)do whatever they want with no consequences, there's going to continue to be tons of divorces. I wasn't the perfect husband, but far from a bad one. If there were consequences for her walking out and sleepiing around, maybe she would think about it and try to work it out like I asked her to at least try to do. Sorry for the rant, but if she's allowed to continue screwing up my kids, then I don't think I'll have any faith in the "system".