I'm starting to think that couples should be encouraged to read Schnarch early - before the Weight of the emotional baggage gets too heavy (2 copies given as a wedding present??).
But then, would anyone really understand it until they have reached the crisis point in their R? I'm not sure.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.