He's being a bit of a drama queen, and you are getting sucked in. If he wants to mope and cry, let him! If he wants to talk to you let him use words. Don't let him make you guess what he's thinking, if he wants to tell you, let him, but don't push him on it. If he says that you can guess what he's thinking, say something like, "Well, I might be able to guess, but I really don't have any way to know. Do you want to tell me?" And then drop it!
There is a quote from a book I have that I need to look up, that might help. I'll be back!
