Still sounds like self-victimization and blame.

I think you should start praying for forgiveness for for blaming yourself and you should start praying for her for destroying her family. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;