You didn't blow it. I said the same thing...and so do many other 'men' here. How can you be divorced and thrown out of your house and be friends.

No my friend...you said the right thing.

I told my W that I would always respect her for the good times that we shared....for being the mother of our children...and for giving me a family....but I would no longer be her friend. She cut my hair for more than 10 years. I started to go to a different hair stylist.

I think, that, someday, you actually MAY be able to establish a friendship with her, but, not now.

I urge you to contact an attorney to know your rights. I urge you to think..if there is anything in the house that...if you woke up one morning and it was gone and it would hurt you...you might consider protecting. I urge you to consider that she may one day do things to hurt you during a divorce...that you consider this as a business now and you keep that in mind.

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I have asked for God's forgiveness, and I've asked for Him to help me forgive myself,

For doing what?

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;