d-day coming soon - help !

[misshim]

H is still pushing everything through. He's doing the D by himself (pro-se) but because of the house, I got a lawyer. This will actually be easy on paperwork. We only have to court 1 time, that's june 29 (if all agree, - it's final). Last sunday he gave me his final stipulation order - to look at. As he said check it over so we both match.

He wants nothing, not the house, no vehicles, no personal household items. I don't get it.

Heck, I can't get him to take his clothes & cologne & dresser. I like them there, it makes me think he's there as well but I know he's long gone. At least in his mind he his.

I get confused whether to be strong to get it out or don't push him. Yes, I am extremely scared and watch whatever I do, I don't want to lose my marriage but not sure how he feels.