To be honest I was a little disapointed last night but the more I thought about it this morning the positives came out..
Doc, FWIW - back in the olden days, one of the most UNattractive things I was guilt of, was getting disappointed and down and pouty whenever W would turn down my attempts at intimacy. This didn't improve my chances for "next time". Don't be That Guy - you are doing great, keep up the good work and the optimistic attitude!
Rob buddy.. I know that is why I was in my room by myself when it did come over me. NOT around wife...
more later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know