WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

She just called saying that she was done with my 7 year old at the doctors. They put a cast on his arm which will stay on for 3 weeks.

She gave me the details of what the doctor said/suggested. Then I said that I wasn't sure what she had planned for the day, but she could just bring my son to my work. She said that she was planning on taking him to get a milkshake and wasn't planning on going back to work.

I said that I was thinking that if she dropped him off, I would pick up my youngest and try to get to the carnival that was starting up today. I didn't invite her, but wasn't sure if I should have. I'm just second guessing it as that is one of her pet peeves. That she didn't think that I include her in stuff, and inviting her was an after thought.

She did sound surprised when I said that she could just drop him off at my work.

Well, she sent me a picture of my son and his cast at the ice cream place. I called her to thank her for the picture as well as her help in taking care of it today. I did mention to her that she was welcome to join us for the carnival if she wanted to, but didn't want her to feel pressure to.

She said that she would think about it, but said that she was having pretty bad cramps today. I just said ok and I'll talk to her later then.

Oh well....