Cinders I find it v. interesting that your Hs OW thinks he is not complete without you! If that were me I would want to make damn sure he never saw you not invite you to be part of thier lives!
Your assessment of her is spot on.
Insane!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15