I don't think so. I am dealing with a somewhat similiar issue so right now I am not the best one to give advise about it. I also know how important it is to feel that you are being heard, so I am dropping you this line.

Are you already taliking to an attorney? I hate that the WAS feels that they can do whatever they want without a thought to the other parent. Check this out, I am sure you can get something in place.

kat

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