Then he told me he'll never find anyone because he's fat and gray (alittle). He told me he wants to dye his hair. Here we go again!!! He goes from cutting himself down to saying he's great. It's driving me crazy. Or he keeps telling how much his body hurts and he's like an old man. (he'll be 37 on saturday)
Signs of Depression, it's what driving him to be this way.
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Now today at work, I'm really depressed. I know I have to let him go. I'm almost convinced that he still cares for me alot because of the things he says but he just doesn't want the responsibility of it all. What a shame.
It is extremely tough, but you HAVE to dig deep and distance yourself from this. He does still care, but where he is right now he CAN'T be there for you. My divorce has just recently been finalized, I thought it was over.....nope. Just a bit different, but not over. He hasn't really had the chance to see for himself what he is missing. He has to experience this. Words will not do it.
You have to focus on you and your D. It has got to be about you two right now.
