Sugar - I think you are doing the right thing by giving it every try you can with your H. I pray that it works out great for both of you. It can. I'm just at the end of my rope with my sitch. I don't think I have it in ME to do the work, anymore. Like I said on my thread...there is a sadness in my heart because of this. When I spoke to H last night. I told him that it was confusing that one minute he was asking for sex and the next he was calling me a f'ing c**t. I just told him I was tired of being disrespected and mistreated by him. I wish it was different. I wish that we could have a good relationship for our daughter, at least. But, the man has some MAJOR issues and basically...I am just not willing to take the punches while he works them out. I've been a punching bag way too long.
Good luck with your surgery. I hope the necessity of it is not because of something really bad. Hang in there. I'll stop in on you more often. I would love to see where you are and where you are going.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
