Yep that's why when addicts just stop and don't get any other kind of help it doesn't really "work". They may never use again but mentally they'll never be right.
Also I would tell him you need the CS ASAP.
I really have alot of respect for you and other addicts in recovery. You realized the problem, did the work, and made the change. Thats why when I read your posts on your thread I want to scream at your wife that life could be a heck of alot worse. You didn't betray her. You got help. I wish my exh was like you.
There is nothing good that exh can bring baby right now. His visits are purely for his own ego and guilt reliever. She doesn't even know him as anyone special in her life. I watch her with my son (16) and she is cuddly and close with him. He is more of a male role model in her life than her own father is.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
