PM,

I am so sorry to hear about your rough weak. To hear that your H has finally said it is over must be absolutely heart-breaking.

As you have said he is using contempt as a way of covering up his guilt, to justify it all, you know it and he knows it too.

You have the support of your parents which is so important, you also have your children and the support here from us.

From reading your threads you have really given it everything, so you cannot reproach yourself, you have not left a stone unturned. I know that you will not give up, but you know now you have to concentrate on you and your children as there is nothing you can do or say that will make any difference to your H.

You said yourself you have come a long way in a year, therefore you will continue to grow as a person and who knows what the future will bring.

You are in my thoughts PM, take care and god bless.

Mark x


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years