Is my sitch WAS or MLC?

[peacetoday]

MY xh still wants to see our kids
he has always kept up on seeing them
I think they can be in MLC and still want to see kids
IM sorry for your pain..I know exactly how you feel
we have to look at this as a mental illness
these was/mlc give up an awful lot to be free
many go in debt
many use drugs/alcohol
these are not signs of a stable person
early ion the crises they do seem sort of happy or maybe just numb is a better word
the euphoria of a new R is kind of a high also
so they are addictive people
later in the criases you will notice more of the depression, moodiness withdrwal anger at least I did
it may be true that some or many of our M had problems mine did
but the crises is theirs and not about us or the M totally
they say its about unresolved childhood issues so its not you

if this were a sane person just wanting a D why doenst the H just ask for a D
then
seek couseling for his grieving process
stay away from any OW for 3-6 months
get a house
have D visit at his house
focus on being a great dad

NO these guys do everything to PLEASE themselves
no work
no pain
no growth
the new R has no chance of working any better than the M did
just work on you
you will grow and be ok
the pain eases and you will find your way again
mostly
everyone here has in time
peace