Well so yesterday she calls to invite me to dinner. When she's asking I can't remember her sounding so nervous, it was strange...She it was such a nice night and she wanted to eat out on the deck...I figured what the heck, if I'm going to get D papers I'm going to get them.
We eat, I help the K's with homework. Give the kids a bath read stories put them to bed, ect. I stick around for a bit after the kids are in bed to give her a chance to bring ANYTHING up but we just chat and I leave.
Having dinner is not unusual we've done it many times...The REALLY unusual part is this is only the second time in TWO YEARS that she's invited me to dinner out of the blue.
Now recapping three weeks ago today she said we're done no fighting no I hate you just it's not going to work...One week ago today (not sure what's up with her and Thursdays)she calls and wants to work out a settlement together...Then we have yesterday...
I really can't figure this out and any and all input would be appreciated.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."