WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

I'm a little anxious this morning - whether or not she will call for lunch. I guess in hindsight I should have timed it better - not asking when it was the week before the boys B'day party. I should have known that she would be anxious about it as this will be first time she will be seeing my family since she moved out. Her mom and dad will be coming so they have both well adjusted to the situation. I'm actually beginning to suspect that her mom may not be as unsupportive of her moving out as I thought. The reason being is that she goes over there almost everyday that the kids are there. I hope this is just irrational paranoia.

Last nite when she showed up at baseball, after my wife left to take my 7 year old to the hospital for his sprained wrist, she asked how I was doing. I said I'm doing all that I can. She didn't really comment. I said that we still talk almost everyday. She said that we will always be talking since we have the boys and she knows I will always be involved not like her ex-husband. I told her that it's been 4 weeks now and I don't think she is ever coming back. She said that she has been hurt a long time so it will take time. I just shrugged and dropped it right there.

I wanted to plant a seed in her to let her know that I'm getting impatient. She waited 10 years for her husband to come back before she filed for divorce. I just want to make sure she's not telling my wife that she can take that long!

Probably a mistake, but we shall see....