K
I dont have any experience here
but it may be a turning point
I would speak to a qualified therapist
dont bring up the D at all
if he brings it up
maybe just say I really dont want a D and would like to leave things alone for now
keep promoting talks and just use your judgenemt if you feel something is working use it
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow