'he came around 2 in the morning, I smelled good, was wearing a nice, not sexy cami with boy shorts.....he took his clothes off and came to bed'
was he invited to come around? why come around so late? did he take ALL of his clothes off?
what would happen if you took all your clothes off and loved his body as he lay there. No expectations of a response, just investigating the male body to see what's it's like. Pretend like you've never seen his body before.
Just wondering what would happen. I bought "the passionate marriage" by David Snarch last week and it talks a lot about intimacy and is quite 'in your face' about sex and connecting and differentiation.
My sitch is so much like yours, only my h DOES want sex. It seems to be the only thing that he will verbalise that he does want. Dunno if he wants to be married, dunno if he wants to live in the same house etc.
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
