n, I'm glad you found temporary work. The hours aren't the best, but look at it another way...a little bit of money coming. It will give you an opportunity to see what is available permanently at a later date. Some places offer the temps permanent jobs if they are good. Let's hope that comes about for you. Another thing, you are tired because this is a different schedule, i.e., you aren't use to it yet. Give yourself some time...one day, that skip will be in your walk at 6:30 p.m.
Enjoy your weekend. You've made it...your first week is over!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you so much for posting to me!! I was so exhausted this past weekend plus I had yard work to do. I was dragging!! This weekend my parents are coming so I've been working around the house trying to get it cleaned up since I didn't do anything last week.
Thank you Kimmine lee for saying that my ex is a fool!!! That he is, he just had everything & now he has nothing or I don't think he has anything. Last I heard when he gets back to the states he won't have a job or a house to live in, or a wife that truly loves him like I did.
I'm supposed to interview for job, it's only part-time & they want someone that wants to stay part-time. But, if they offer it to me I'm going to take it. I do hate to lead them on to let them think that part-time is good for a long period of time but I've got to get something. I don't think it will turn into full time. And, I could do this part time for at least 2 years with alimony coming in too. But I really don't want to depend on alimony b/c with the economy like it is now my ex may not be able to find work or pay me.
Thank you all again for advice & watching out for me!!! I really need it!!!
Nothing much to post for me. I'm still doing some part-time work every now & then with the temp agency. No word from ex so I don't know if he is back in the US or not.
Also been doing lots of yard work, in between the rain. It's rained a lot here lately but I know in the summer we will be wishing for rain.
I'm sorry I haven't posted in a while. I'm trying to keep busy.
N, I'm glad you are okay. I'm sure the yard work is keeping you busy. We've had a lot of rain as well. Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I'm so sorry I haven't been on the boards lately. I went to my parents house last weekend & have been so tired that I haven't felt like getting on. I worked in my yard really hard last week, trimming hedges & I've gotten into poison ivy! I'm itching all over!!!! My legs & my arms got it. I went to the doctor today & got some cream, I sure hope it helps. I look terrible!!!
Update on my ex. My ex SIL called me late today. She said that my ex quit the job in Laos & they have moved to Thailand. He does have a friend that lives there. Anyway, she said he is looking for work & it's cheaper to live over there but he is trying to distance himself from his friend b/c he said he is stranger than he thought he was. Well, I know his friend really liked me so I don't know if he has said something or not.
That kind of depressed me. She also told me that her husband is giving my ex money. I'm not sure if all that is true, sometimes she will stretch the true. I don't know why that has bothered me. To me after being with him for so long, I can't believe all this & also he is still my family!
Oh, I did forget to mention that my SIL said that those boys are always right & will never admit they made a mistake. She is talking more about her H than mine b/c I have heard my ex say he is sorry & also that he has made mistakes in his life. She thinks my ex is like her H, which I don't think they are.
Worse and worse-- his new life is turning into an epic disaster tour of Southeast Asia. He will grow to resent OW for talking him into that mess, if he hasn't already.
Thank you Andabelle!!! That made me feel better. I've been sort of down after hearing all of it. He doesn't have a job & I googled his name & employment seach & found him looking for something in Thailand, so I'm not sure what is going on but neither one of them are working right now.
