Just had a great night with my boys. Had my "focus on kids class" which is required in Missouri when you get a D and kids are involved. Got my boys from my WAW and went on a bike ride on a trail. My ex-boss has a daughter a year younger than my youngest son and we all went on a ride together. Came back and had some ice cream. Youngest cried because he couldn't come home with Dad tonight. Sucks!
My oldest informed me tonight when I asked him if he was excited about tomorrow being his last day of school tomorrow that Mom said he didn't have to go. She's told me and teachers and everyone that he's going to a new school next year (conveniently in the same town where OM lives) and she's not even going to let him say good-bye to his friends.
I took a new job two months before bomb and had talked about moving family to new town. Oldest son said he didn't want to switch schools ever. I only mentioned moving and it was only 30 minutes away. We live in a rural community. During our discussions before she left, my wife always brought up how mad it made her that I mentioned switching schools to my son. Now she's moving him (if she gets the custody that she wants). It just pisses me off how she thinks about no one but herself anymore. I've learned on here that is a common issue with WAW's, but it doesn't make it any easier. If she gets her way, my son will never see his best friend and other friends again and she tells him he doesn't have to go his last day. Am I overreacting?


M35
H33
S4
S7
M6
T11
found out about OM 03/11/09
she left 04/11/09
she filed D 04/21/09