Thanks for sharing. I do enjoy listening the stories of others so that I can tweak my own strategy. Funny thing is that the my personality and the OM's are virtually identical. With the exception that I don't look like her grandfather like he 'literally' does.
Well I've already changed and apologized for my errors in the M. Sometimes I worry about my W believing all the lies she was telling herself to push me away. I mean, she was the most gentle and trusting person I knew (as are most WASs I've found out, LOL), then she turned around and became this spiteful, angry, depressed and bitter person. Sometimes I wonder if it was the birth of our last child only 2 years ago that pushed her over (hormones). Plus I think her family has a history of depression although they don't talk about it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.