Out of curiosity, is your approach how you were able to save your M? I like to use what works or doesn't work from other people's successes to help craft my own plan.
DQ, Your insight is again great! When you were in the middle of your A. If your H was to give you an ultimatum, would that have worked for you? What eventually "snapped" you out of it?
In my W's case, I believe she was looking for a "father-figure" I think I mentioned to you before in one of my earlier threads. I filled that need for her until R maturity didn't outmatched my actual age. Plus we didn't spend enough time together after our first D was born and I didn't treat her as an "individual" woman. So when her boss came along, it filled that emotional void that was left by me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
