getting child support from her is for THE CHILDREN...hence the name. Stop worrying that she'll respect you less if you put the money into an account for their schooling...
She'll respect you more for asserting yourself - OR SHE WON'T...WHO KNOWS? WHO CARES? At least the kids will benefit. It's not about you and it surely is not about her and what she feels or how she'll see you and blah blah blah blahblahblah....
I'm shaking my head. Kevin, you are very stubborn or...something.... Still making smirky remarks about her and the church too...like you are such a bastion of joy filled loving grace and strength....once again missing my whole religious point ...(SIGH)
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016