Gee, no posts from anyone for quite awhile. I guess I'll keep journaling then.

Sent my L the form H wants me to sign. L wants me to hold off til we have another mediation, tentatively set for June 10. Problem is neither H nor I got much out of mediation the first time - we were in separate rooms, it was very tense for both of us, H didn't care for the mediator. Perhaps I could offer H time to talk things out together, just the two of us, in place of mediation. This would be a huge 180 for me. I've avoided D and money talk like the plague for 2 years now.

I wonder if H knows that if we don't request a hearing by June 13 (the one year filing date) then the case is dismissed and someone has to file all over again?

Last edited by Silver Fox; 05/21/09 01:28 AM.
Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10