Paul...my story is long and kinda complicated, but we are divorced now, and I regret that we did not do all we could to save our marriage. I - however - always wanted our marriage to work when we separated, and begged him to pursue me. Apparently, most WAW's don't want you to pursue, but I did. The problem was, he was done with me by then, so there was no desire on his side to pursue.
I am in a 5 year long relationship since then, and we are getting married in August. So if you read me talking about my current relationship and feelings, this is with my new partner.
I did not know my new partner before I left my husband, btw. He was not an OM of mine.