Thanks AJM,

I'm a little confused on the whole self-fulfilling prophecy thing... What do you mean by acting like this is permanent? I'm asking cause i dont want it to be that way and want to make sure by me detaching and me acting like its permanent isnt the same thing. I've stopped calling, texting,(unless i need to for D) asking her whats going on what shes doing, I keep the conversation short and on D, Im the first one off the phone, and im doing everything for me and D, I have done her a couple of favors mentioned in earlier posts. Should I be doings something more when me and W talk? I'm just trying to clarify I just feel like i cant really afford to make any more mistakes...