H is stressing me out again. He normally has the kids Tuesday night and asked today for Wed. night also instead of Friday night b/c of his race Saturday. I agreed to that. Then he emails me that he also wants Sunday am to Tuesday afternoon instead of Tuesday night (usually has them for about 24 hours). Am I crazy being suspicious this is occurring right before our mediation next month? You know a year ago he didn't have them for any overnights, then 6 months ago he starts having one a week and then a couple months ago to 2 nights. Now I'm wondering if he wants to go to 3. I really don't have a problem, except I'm concerned he's motivated by $$$ rather than wanting to be with the kids. He goes running and to work and leaves the kids in the apt. and they're not supposed to go out.