Do you now see how tweaking your thoughts just a little changes your emotions and then your actions? Just by disputing why she is upset to a positive reason from a negative one changes your demeanor. You are doing something good and healthy for yourself don't let your W or anyone take that away. You don't control her but you are in control (I know how hard this is) of yourself. Now take it a step further and love her more now. Keep doing the loving actions for yourself, her and your family. Your W is watching you, use that knowledge and lead her back to you. Patience, wisdom, understanding and love. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
