It depends on what you want. Do you want the kids or are you worried about paying/receiving child support. Me? I could careless about child support. All I want is my time with the kids, the more the merrier for me.
I'm trying to stay focused on the kids and their needs. When issues pop up where I need to see the L about the D, then I make the call.
Again, with me, it's not about the money. I don't care how much more she makes than me. All I want is my kids. I don't need her money nor would I want it. It's not that I'm roo proud, I want to give the kids what I can give them.