WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[MrBond]

"Now if she's confused then what hope do I have of understanding her?"

Exactly! You can't understand her right now, so don't bother.

Keep on what you're doing and let her figure things out on her own.

As for your friend who was the WAW twice, have you ever asked her why she left both her H? While she offers and interesting insight for you, your W is much more open to a reconciliation than your friend was it seems.

Keep on with the GAL.