I will not talk to him about what he could have, he knows what he could have. But I will have to talk to him about the kids' schedule, that is just a practical/planning thing that needs to happen. So I can start making plans for myself. I am sure he is not going to have them that much without me for a while b/c he will spend free time remodeling his house. That is not a safe place for the kids with power tools all over and Nathan having terrible dust and mold allergies...
But he will have to suck it up and find a couple of nights a week and some weekends. Even if he has to stay at our house or his parents' with them, he needs to start having some overnights, I think. And the counselor agreed.
