Hi all and thanks for your support it is really appreciated. You all talk a lot of sense having been through similar situations. Yesterday was not good my one son did not want to go with his D and of course this was my fault and "would I speak to him". I told him no he has a mind of his own and this is what he has to expect. My son said that he should not have left us and if he did not want to go with him then he wouldn't. My H was very angry with me because of this. He also seemed very much under pressure, no idea why. I took it was because of my Son but was not sure. I know he is going away with ow next week. We had holiday booked this year but of course he wont be coming with us. The will be strange for all of us as we have always done everything as a family but I am still going with the children, why should they miss out yet again.
