WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

PMA_Baby!

Thanks for your insight

I agree with everything you said except that the only person who knows my WAW better right now is my WAW. Now if she's confused then what hope do I have of understanding her?

I do hope that she is confused. Although last Friday's call where she broke down in tears again, she was very clear when she said she hasn't changed her mind. She did say last nite that she was sad about the situation. Still not sure what this all means

Right now, I'm going to continue what I'm doing, whatever that maybe at times as I don't understand what I'm doing at times. I am trying to continue to work on me for me and my boys.

Once I get a signed support agreement from her, I may reevaluate what my approach his. I just hope that my current approach is right and if its not, that its not too late to change it at that point. Maybe that's when I'll say what my WAW friend suggested. Timing seems to be so important

I still beat myself up at how I told my wife that I loved her enough not to stand in her way if she felt she wanted to go. I did that right before I took the boys up to CT for the weekend. I think I should have waited till I was going to be around. Then again, she had already scheduled an apt with a realtor to sell the house

It is hard